1 Peter 5:7
Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
People input information about others, then perceive and treat them according to their own thoughts and state of mind.
Even with the same person, one person may perceive him positively and like him, whereas another person may dislike him and thus perceive him negatively and hate him with a passion because he doesn’t fit his heart.
The value that God, the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Son Lord see is different from the value that you see. Looking at the inside more than the outside is ‘God’s way.’
However, it is really difficult to do things following God’s ways. Why would that be? It is because of your own perception and thoughts.
You have to drop your perception and thoughts. Only then will God give you what He wants and choose what pleases His heart for you.
People are also satisfied only when they do things according to their own preferences.
Your spouse too—you are satisfied only when you choose and live with someone you want.
You have to entrust things to God. Then God will do as much as He wants according to His ways.
And when God gives you His design, you have to take action according to that design. Then God will be satisfied, the Lord will be satisfied and you will be satisfied. Your body will also be satisfied and your spirit, too, will be eternally satisfied.
I hope that all of you will get rid of your self-centeredness, your own ways, and your perceptions and entrust everything to God to do things according to His design.